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Emily Ratajkowski Gives Her Opinion on First Date Sex

November 2, 2022

And just like that, Emily Ratajkowski is back on the dating scene.

After filing for divorce from her husband Sebastian Bear McClard in September, the model shared some of her sex and the city-esque single girl experiences in the October 31st episode of her High Low with EmRata podcast, including his theory on the types of men out there.

“There are babies, there are monsters, and then there are baby monsters,” Emily said during an “EmRata Asks” segment. “Babies are the men who need to be cared for and reassured at all times. The monsters who say, ‘Sorry your mother died but you want to come?’ And then the third ones are the worst… and they’re the men I can’t handle. They need to be reassured, they need to be rocked and sucked to the teeth. But they also say: “Leave me alone, woman.'”

She added, “This week I particularly had an interaction with a baby and then with a…it’s either a baby or a monster baby.”

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As Emily, 31, navigates the scene looking for potential suitors, she said she often finds herself contemplating the subject of sex on the first date.

“I’ve thought about it a lot because it speaks so much about power dynamics and sex on the first date is the ultimate example of that because you’re dealing with gender dynamics in such a specific little vacuum,” said she declared. said. “I think if you’re not ready to be vulnerable, that’s a reason not to have sex on the first date.”

She continued, “Even when I’m like, ‘It was a fun night, I don’t care if that person and I interacted again,’ I still hate it when I feel like there’s a part of it. them that feels like, ‘Yeah, I hit that kind of vibe. Even though he’s not the kind of guy who would say that out loud, but it feels. That’s a reason not to. not sleep with a man.

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While Emily, who married her ex in 2018 and shares a 20-month-old son Sylvester with him – said she was “not necessarily looking for love”, she admitted that physical intimacy with a partner led to a deeper connection for her personally.

“I go on these dates and it’s not like I’m going to sleep with someone and then I’m more likely to fall in love, but I feel more,” she explained. “If I don’t sleep with them, I think about them less. I can forget about them in three days.”

She added: “I think the conclusion we’ve come to is that you should do whatever you want to do. But knowing what you want to do is really hard. That’s the hardest job.”

Although sex on a first date can be on a case-by-case basis, Emily said she feels comfortable making the first move when the time is right.

“I went on a date and we kissed. Then we were crossing the street and there was this moment where I want to be kissed,” she recalled of a recent first date. “And I kind of grabbed him and kissed him. He was like, ‘This is the kind of feminism I can resign myself to.'”

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(While Emily hasn’t named any names, she was recently spotted kissing DJ Orazio Rispo.)

In the future, whether Emily meets babies, monsters, or kissable musicians, one rule remains the same for her: men should never allow women to feel less than good.

“What I’m starting to take away is that we just have to stop worrying about whether they like us or not, we have to let go of validation, that power that gives them,” the man said. My body said the author on the podcast. “Because, who f–k are they to make us feel somehow about ourselves.”

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